Creating resolutions for the new year always seems like a way to set yourself up to fail. Here is what a typical New Year's Resolution list looks like:
lose weight
make more money
buy a new car
buy a new house
spend more time with family
spend less money
exercise more
eat healthier
forgive those who wrong me
get closer to God
Go to Disneyland
Move
fall in love
get married
....
Creating a New Year's Resolution list is like setting yourself up for failure in the New Year...at the beginning of the year. It is like a list of failures about to happen. Who wants that? Here are a list of things that we write on our resolution list; things that we hope we can change:
lose wight
move
fall in love
buy a new (fill in the blank)
write a book
learn to cook
learn to knit
learn to (fill in the blank)
Spend more time praying
Spend more time with family
work less
work more
find a job
earn more money
socialize more
start a savings account
make amends with family
pray more
read my bible more
go to church
exercise
eat healthier
....
Who can do all those things in one year? When I hear people say, "I am going to fall in love this year" I think "how?" You can't make yourself fall in love with someone, trust me we have all tried and failed. Love isn't something you can put on a list of things to accomplish in a year. It just happens, when it is supposed to happen. In fact, all these things are things that happen when they are supposed to happen. When God's timing says they will happen.
Here is what I am planning to do instead of a new years resolution. I am making a prayer list of the things I want to change. I am going to write a bible verse next to each one and stand on that verse for that item on the list. I am not going to say, I want this to happen this year, I am going to say, "Lord this is my list of things I want changed in my life, in my family and I am giving this list to You. You who is our provider, healer, dream fulfiller. You whose word says in Matthew 6:26-34 (or your own verse), that You are our provider, but we need to have faith in You. Faith in Your love for us. I give this list to You and put my faith and my trust in You and in Your word," This is what I am going to do, create a prayer list. I am not going to put a date on when these items need to happen by, because God's timing is so much better than our's could ever be.
It is not because we want change that change happens, it because we want change and we trust in God and pray to God for change to happen that it happens. Let's make a prayer list and give to God who wants to help us with our changes. Let's pray over 2015 instead of making a list of changes and putting a date next to them.
Yes it is still a list and it is still a list of things we want changed in our life, but we can't do it on our own. Well we can, but I promise you the outcome will not be as good as what it will be with God helping us. There is nothing we can't do with God on our side, but there is so much we will miss out on, if we try to go about it on our own! :)
Until the Next Scribble.........